Making Decision

I strongly uphold the statement that: instead of making the decisions by their own, people prefer letting someone make decisions for them. As a matter of fact, this situation is universal, I scarcely regard it as a good idea.

First of all, it is human's nature to avoid the obligations, albeit they know that clearly it is their own business. If this decision turns out to be successful, no doubt that people will benefit from it. However, if it is a wrong decision and have some bad effects to the future, people will said: "oh! It's not my fault because Mike made this choice for me". Everyone do not want to feel guilt, accordingly, a great amount of them try to avoid it by letting others make decisions for their.

Moreover, making decision seems to be a tough task for some people, especially, some essential decision. As a result, slothful people give the right to make decisions to others. And then they needn't to worry about some problems, which must be solved before. To give an example, when we finish our study in university, a great number of students have no idea about what careers they are suitable for. Therefore, their parents have to read a lot of newspaper and go on the internet to land an ideal job for their dear son or daughter, even their son and daughter are adult now! I think it is a big problem for our generation, for we depend on our parents in so many means, particularly when we make decision. The reason for that, in my opinion, maybe is we barely decide our own ways since we are children.

However, from my perspective, it is never a good idea to let others decide your life. The main reason is that they have no motivation to consider your problems seriously and carefully. It's not their obligations, even they are your best friends or parents. In addition, my friends and parents could not stay with us for our whole life. There must be one day we are in front of decisions alone. As we grow up, we must try to make various decisions, although it may be not an easy and happy procedure, but it will help us to become more mature. And only in this way, we will own the ability to face to countless choices in the future.

In one word, I do think there are lots of people like others to make decisions for them, but it's really an indispensable way for us to become independent.

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